Lena Dunham ne pourra jamais tomber enceinte : La confidence choc !
Lena Dunham n’en a pas fini avec son rapport au corps et le poids qui est le sien. Si l’actrice de Girls s’est retrouvée en porte-drapeau des personnalités et femmes qui luttent contre le body-shaming, elle a souvent suscité des critiques et divisé. En ligne de mire notamment, une auto-critique qui vire parfois à la victimisation.
“J’aurais toujours le ventre d’une femme enceinte de quatre mois bien que je ne serais jamais enceinte de quatre mois. Et ça me paraît sexy“, écrit Lena Dunham en légende d’une photo postée en story le 16 octobre 2018, où elle apparaît face à la glace, un léger ventre rond mis en avant. Si certains y verront une nouvelle complainte de Lena sur son poids, le message fait surtout référence à une triste confidence que l’actrice de 32 ans a récemment insinué : elle ne pourra jamais avoir d’enfant.
En février 2018, elle avait révélé avoir subi une hystérectomie, intervention qui consiste à retirer l’utérus et le col de l’utérus, suite à l’endométriose. En août, la comédienne, qui tourne actuellement Once Upon A Time In Hollywood de Quentin Tarantino et est à l’affiche de la série Camping en tant que productrice exécutive, avait fêté les neuf mois de son opération en dévoilant plusieurs clichés d’elle totalement nue. Un chiffre-anniversaire qui n’avait rien d’anodin, puisque neuf mois représente aussi la durée d’une grossesse.
Today is National Leathercraft Day, National Relaxation Day and National Lemon Merengue Pie Day. It’s also the 9 month anniversary of my hysterectomy. I’ve never celebrated the 9 month anniversary of anything and I realized last night why that number feels so funny- I won’t ever do it the way I planned to. My body is mostly healed and every day I find a new bruise on my heart, but today I offer myself gratitude: from the most pained place, I somehow knew to choose myself. The purest glint of who we are and know we can be is always available to us, calm and true at our center. My friend Paul named my uterus Judy, and when she was being uppity we called her out, hence the tattoo on my ribs, which hurt like fuck even through the pain meds: #RIPJudy. Today I give thanks for Judy, for her graceful exit and for this body, which is stronger than I’ve ever given it credit for. Happy Giving Birth To Myself Day.
This is a post about chronic pain. I have it. I bet a lot of you do too. Some of us talk about it. Others are afraid to, as it could cost them their jobs or their relationships or their sense of control in a chaotic world. In this way it’s very analogous to sexual trauma. There is also (as @ladygaga so wisely shared this week) a proven connection between chronic pain and trauma. Therefore, a lot of people- a lot of women- find their pain is activated by weeks like this one. On the day after Dr. Ford’s testimony I awoke with a start at 3am. It felt like every cell in my neck was singing. My ankles and wrists were weak and my fingers didn’t do their assigned job. Yesterday I felt like I was suspended in gel, and when I meditated a line of pain zipped from my neck to my foot. I’m sorry if I don’t answer your text or email, or if I can’t show up the way someone else would. I appear to be totally able bodied but it’s complex, and I am just trying to do everything required to maintain a life of joy and service. My work costs everything I have. This is fibromyalgia. It’s little understood and so even though I have a lot of knowledge and support it’s hard to shake the feeling I am crazy. But I’m not (at least not this way!) and you’re not. Your pain, whatever shape it takes, is yours and so it is real. I believe you when you say you hurt. I have learned time and time again how important it is to believe.
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